Wedding Toast (General) FAQ

Keep a wedding toast to 1–3 minutes. Guests are standing with glasses raised — one clear story or observation and a toast line is enough.

A toast is short and ends by inviting the room to drink. A speech can run several minutes with stories. If you are not the best man, maid of honor, or a parent, a toast is usually the better fit.

Name the couple, offer one sincere wish, and say clearly: “Please raise your glasses to…” so guests know when to join you.

Yes, stand, hold your glass in the hand you will not gesture with, and wait for the room to quiet. If there is a microphone, use it even in a small room. Say "please raise your glasses" before the final line so people have time to reach for them.

Say so, and turn it into the reason you can be trusted: "I have only known them three years, which is long enough to have watched him carry her groceries up three flights." One observed detail from a distance beats invented intimacy. Keep the toast under two minutes.

Our AI uses the personal details and stories you provide to craft a unique, personalized speech. Simply answer a few questions about your relationship, share meaningful memories, and choose your preferred tone and length. The AI then generates 3 different draft variations for you to choose from and customize.

Absolutely! The generated drafts are starting points. You can edit every word, add your own touches, and refine until it sounds exactly like you. We recommend using the AI as a foundation and then personalizing it with specific details only you would know.

Most speeches work best at 3-5 minutes (around 400-600 words). This gives you enough time to share meaningful content without losing your audience's attention. Our generator lets you choose between short (2-3 min), medium (4-5 min), and long (6-7 min) options.